Stressful life for kids
Nowadays, some parents tend to expect too much from their children, which puts a lot of pressure on the children. Why does this phenomenon occur? The following causes may result in it.
The harsh reality may be one reason for their high expectation. Parents think if their children can study hard, they will be admitted to key universities, and they will have more opportunities for choice in job hunting after graduation.
The peer pressure is the second contributing factor. Parents tend to compare their own children to other children in terms of schoolwork. They think it a shame if their children always fall behind other children. So parents set high standards for their children and even send them to many different kinds of training centers regardless of their children’s feelings.
Parents’ love for their kids may be the third reason. Parents are willing to prepare everything for their children as long as they do what their parents want. But sometimes such love becomes a heavy burden on their children.
High expectation for children can lead to conflicts with children. Heavy pressure will crush their children. To set reasonable expectation for the kids is not easy, but is worth trying . Let’s make pressure as a power to help every potential child adapt to the complex society..